Is it OK to use sex toys with my partner?
People often raise the question to me if it is OK to use sex toys to enhance their sexual life with their partner. The answer is short:
Yes it is perfectly OK!
Many people, particularly men are concerned to introduce sex toys in the bedroom. They feel that their "powers" are being devalued and their manhood is being replaced with a dildo or a vibrator.
From the other hand women often scared that the reason why their partner wants to try sex toys while they are having private moments is because he lost interest or bored with her sexually.
None of the above fears are valid.
Using sex toys with your partner is a lot of fun! It will also enhance your sexual experience and in most cases will result in better, longer and more orgasms. In this article I will give you a few ideas on what toy to use and how to use them.
Vibrating Cock Rings
Very likely one of the first toy you are going to buy a vibrating cock ring. This toy transforms his penis into a vibrator. There usually is a vibrating bullet on top of the ring and there is also a controller unit where you can control the level of the vibration. The intended use of the toy is that the bullet not only vibrates his penis but it touches her clitoris every time his penis dives deep enough into her vagina. This is giving an exceptional sensation for her while the vibration enhances his orgasm and gives extra tingles to the testicles.
Cunnilingus and vibrator combo
This method is the exact opposite of the vibrating cock ring. It stimulates the other way around. The vibrator goes into her vagina and the same time he performs oral on her. It is important for him to focus on the clitoris and move his tongue strong and fast left right or up down depending on what is her preference. The combination of cunnilingus and the vibration delivered by the vibrator will give her unparalleled orgasms. It is quite common for women to reach multiple orgasms while performing this method.
Fellatio and Remote Controlled Butterfly Vibrator combo
Using a butterfly vibrator on her while giving him oral will give both an outstanding sexual experience. In this method he has the control over her orgasm. Most butterfly vibrators come with remote control, some are even cordless. He controls the vibration of the butterfly hence he is controlling when exactly she has an orgasm. It is extremely exciting to see her enjoying giving oral just as much as you do receiving it.
These are only a few ideas on how to use sex toys with your partner. If you have different experiences or even ideas please do share it with me and I will publish it on this blog. Let's make this post an ever expanding source of information for couples who would like to make the most out of their private moments.
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