Category Archives: BDSM

Popular Sex Toys for Lesbians

It’s common knowledge that most sex toys can be used for any person (or combination of people) with any kind of body, but if you’ve found that the majority of toys seem to market to heterosexual couples, never fear! There are plenty of toys on the market that will work wonders for lesbian couples. 

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The first toy, the strap-on, is probably also one of the most well-known. A strap-on has two parts: firstly, the harness, which can be made of leather or cloth depending on your preference, and secondly, the dildo. Some people prefer leather harnesses because they warm up after contact with the skin and they mold to the wearer’s body, but others like the softness of cloth harnesses. Some harnesses also have hidden pockets that can hold a bullet vibrator for the wearer. As for the second required piece for a strap-on, you’re probably already aware of the wide variety of dildos available for your pleasure! You can use small dildos, large dildos, textured or smooth, phallic or strangely-shaped. Harnesses generally require silicone dildos, but that still allows for a wide range of shapes and sizes for whatever your mood may be.

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Everyone loves a good, old-fashioned hand between the legs, but let’s be honest: sometimes the key to a night full of bucking, writhing and wild animal noises lies not in your fingers but in a reliable pair of batteries. If you can imagine it, it probably exists as a vibrator. There are the classic phallus-shaped vibrators for those who like to keep it simple, and vibrating toys that look and feel like tongues (because really, who doesn’t want to feel the magic that a vibrating tongue can offer?). Many heroes now produce vibrators designed especially for dual stimulation, making a once-monotonous sex routine into Christmas and your birthday both at the same time. It’s like being able to enjoy both gingerbread cookies and birthday cake in the same night, except for your vagina. There are even fingertip vibrators that fit against the pads of your fingers, making touch ten times more intense.

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And of course no discussion of sex toys would be complete without a shout-out to the slightly kinky. You don’t need a man to reap the benefits of a set of handcuffs, a blindfold, or a paddle. Another fun addition to your toy box is the butt plug, which ranges in size from “playing it safe” to “I am going to feel that tomorrow!” for seriously mind-boggling orgasms.

A guide to spanking

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Women have many sexual fantasies and studies have shown time and again that these fantasies occasionally border on the odd and extreme. Some of them range from anal intoxication (forgive the vulgar imagination) to zoological bestiality (zoological for wild animals). Yes, women’s fantasies are much stranger than those of men, with a little imagination and creativity I’m sure they can come up with much more weird ideas.

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However, a common fantasy women face is spanking, this may be attributed to the numerous nerve endings around the midsection in a woman’s body. A relatively higher concentration is found at the hips, going towards the softer buttock area and finally merging at the clitoral and larger vaginal section. Stimulation of these nerve endings usually results in an endorphin rush that significantly increases sexual pleasure.

Science aside, there’s something very naughty and erotic about spanking. For the kinky, it kind of reinforces the “bad girl/slave whore” realization. It is especially true for the women who haven’t yet come to terms with this, till after being in bed with a sexually dominant man.

Spanking is usually done while in a foreplay session that lead to sex. However it can also be done in the process of intercourse to complement the sexual tension leading up to an orgasm. For those used to hand spanking, a spanking paddle can be used with great effect to increase the sensitivity of the bottom. After you are more accustomed to spanking use a variety of methods explore what works for you. You may try spanking harder. Or you might want to vary the speed, frequency, pressure and the area of placement of the hits. This may change with different partners, but lots of practice will ensure success.

For the more experienced, you can invest in more advanced spanking paddles such as the Bondage Boutique Advanced Split Leather Paddle. This amazing innovation ensures that you receive hits on both cheeks and you also experience double pleasure accompanied with the soft leather feeling.

Flogging

If you want to take to the next level then Caning, flogging and whipping are for you. Flogging involves using a flogger that incorporates many tails connected to a handle. The great thing is that flogging can be used anywhere on the body due to the distribution of hits by the many tails a flogger contains, hence multiple pleasure. It should however be done carefully to avoid any injury. Flogging should not be used on the head and facial areas. Floggers come in various forms such the long handled Sportsheets Body Tickler Ball Chain Whip and the short handled Bondage Boutique Advanced Extra Long Suede Flogger.

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Caning

For the cane, it is even more applicable with a teacher-student or a daddy-daughter fetish in mind. It is similar to a whip, however it causes less pain for the same amount of force applied. You should use it to strike the lower bottom, upper thigh region on your partner’s body. Do not use the tip to strike, rather, spare a few inches from the skin. Canes do not come in a wide variety due to their simplicity, the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather and PVC Cane seems to be a popular choice for this particular role.

Whipping

If you feel flogging doesn’t do it then you can try whipping. A whip has a single slender extension that offers a greater intense feeling on a single region. You could start with a riding crop then make your way up to the bullwhips. The Bad Kitty Heart Shaped Riding Crop should serve beginners well, while for the more advanced, the Lux Fetish 6 Foot Bull Whip should come in handy. Whips are painful and dangerous when used by an inexperienced and careless hand, so lots of practice is advised.

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Conclusion

For whipping and flogging extra care should be observed and a safe word should be used when boundaries are crossed. Also, pay special attention to skin care after these sessions, we don’t want you getting bruises to the body areas that afford you the most pleasure. View the full range of BDSM products from Sextoyshop.us the best adult shop online in the USA.

A Darker Shade of Love: Some Ideas on Entry Level BDSM

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A resurgence of interest in BDSM, or commonly sexual activities with elements of a power exchange involved, was inevitable with the release of 50 Shades of Grey, an imperfect if endearing example of a relationship with BDSM elements. Unfortunately, it is not a great primer on becoming a BDSM practitioner. Luckily, there are a number of toys that can be put to use without much cost or training!

1. Remote Controlled Vibrators
Being able to give your lover pleasure with the press of a button can put a surprising amount of control in your hands. Whether you want to leave it on until they are on the edge before leaving them begging for more or if you want to surprise them with constant reminders of their place, these come in handy!

  1. Blindfolds and Earmuffs
    Sensory deprivation highlights the remaining bits of information the mind receives. Cutting your submissive off from everything but your touch leaves them only able to think of just that. Blindfolds and earmuffs are two very simple, safe, and easy to use devices that accomplish just that!
  2. Lingerie & Clothing
    While it may seem like a tame suggestion, a carefully selected outfit and the right frame of mind can set the mood for an entire evening. For example, if your girlfriend is normally a conservative dresser, making her wear something mildly more revealing can be a safe power exchange that leaves you both crawling over each other by the end of the day.
    There are, however, some things to avoid or use with more caution than you might think is necessary
  3. Pain & Impact

The typical idea of BDSM to most folks is one person walloping on the other, at least for the short answer. In truth, you can have enjoyable BDSM experiences without intending to inflict any pain at all. You can do so, but extreme caution and the aid of an experienced practitioner are highly recommended.

  1. Rope
    A faulty bit of rope-work can leave someone with nerve damage, loss of limbs, and even death. Even if you read it in a book, you should not do rope bondage without some prior instruction. If you absolutely must disregard the warning, keep a sharp object nearby that is capable of quickly cutting the type of rope you are using.
  2. Gags
    A lot of BDSM will necessitate constant communication between you and the others involved. If a submissive is gagged and something begins to go wrong, it can be difficult to pass on a safe word or other cry for help with a gag in place. A gag by itself or a gag added after you are more familiar with the partner is fine, but exercise caution.

    Keep Learning!
    With BDSM, there is always something else to learn. No one introductory list is going to cover all the things you should try and might like, and they certainly will not tell you of all the safety concerns. Seek out additional sources of information and attempt to find people you can learn from. Good luck, and have fun! Remember to check out the full range of adult toys for Sextoyshop.us

Make Your Own Sex Toy Room

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Did 50 Shades of Grey get you just a little bit curious? Of course it did. You wondered what it would be like to take some of that fun into your own Bed Room and spice up your sex life a bit.

Something 50 Shades of Grey, the movie and the books, did was pique our curiosity, but also gave us permission to seek out those grey areas and explore them without embarrassment. So if you want to explore your BDSM side with your very own ‘toy room”, just like 50 Shades of Grey, we can help.

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For some people the idea of being tied up is very, very erotic. That feeling of helplessness, of giving yourself up to your partner is incredibly hot. It goes without saying that this is an activity only to be undertaken with someone you completely trust and have a safe word in place.

There are lots of bondage toys from mild to extreme. Handcuffs or silk ties are a great place to start. You’ll be amazed at how having your hands restrained changes everything! Add a mask to restrict your vision and you’re in for a treat of a new kind. Not quite knowing where the next touch is coming from, or taste or well, you get my point!

Once you graduate from basic handcuffs you can get a full body restraint kit. Even if you don’t have a 4-poster bed, these are easy to set up and use. Some slide under the mattress and some attach to bed legs and some simply tie your partner to him or herself for some luscious fun.

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Teasing
Speaking of teasing, that’s one of the most fun parts of bondage play. Your partner can’t get away from your strokes and caresses, so you have can play all you like. You might want to try feathers for tickling or warming oils to rub into the skin. A vibrator is the ultimate tease toy. Try a small one that fits on your finger to arouse and tease and watch your partner squirm with pleasure. Or place a larger one just near a sensitive spot to hear your partner beg for release. That release is all up to, your gift to give or withhold.

Pain
Don’t think hitting or abusive pain. Think of pain as an addition to your pleasure. It doesn’t have to be harsh and should never ever be angry. A few taps across soft creamy buttocks can be a huge turn on for both of you, especially if you have a special toy you reserve just for “punishment”.

The word “toys” is used for a reason. Toys can add an element of fun and spice to your bedroom that you haven’t explored – yet and Sextoyshop.us is the best adult store online to find everything you need.

 

Enema Anal & Sex Toys for The Ultimate Satisfaction

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Sex toys are nowadays a hit in the market. More and more people are going to use the same for ultimate satisfaction if he or she is devoid of any physical partner. One such product that is extremely popular among the anal sex lover these days is the Enema Anal Toy. This is a range of anal sex toys which are specially designed to satisfy the users and to take them to the ultimate level of pleasure and enjoyment. Let’s have a look what the Enema Sex Toy is and how it helps the users.

What is an Enema Anal Toy and How Can it Help Me? 

Products like Colt Anal Douche, Ultra Douche, Flush Bulb Syringe Douche with sexy dice are very much popular among all the Enema sex toys. These are extremely favourite sex toys of the anal sex lovers. A simple insertion of the Enema toys by using the slim nozzle will give the user a lifetime pleasure. These are easy to use anal douche for a smooth anal play along with easy to operate features. Even in the low light, these toys from Enema glows well. Its typical anal douche is 7.5 – 8 inches in length for giving extremely pleasurable sex time for the users. One can insert this particular product up to 2.5 inches inside the anus. As this rubber base item contains both latex and phthalates, this is extremely comfortable and flexible to use thus leading the users to an ultimate orgasm.

What is So Special About Enema Anal Toys and Enema Anal System?

Enema Anal Toy is a great option to satisfy your desires. You can explore different sheds of yourself if you use this sex toy. It will help you to quench your thirst by making self love and will give you the ultimate pleasurable orgasm that you have never felt before. Enema Anal Toy immensely helps to feel relieved once you use it to achieve your desirable pleasure. Apart from that, this sex toy can also help you to make you mentally as well as physically strong as this toy is completely safe to use and there is no worry of getting any diseases like AIDS. Furthermore, if you have this toy you no longer need a partner or need to persuade them to agree to fulfil your needs.

Enema sex toys are a great hit in the market and Enema Anal system is being used frequently by all types of people belonging to different age groups. Enema Sex Toys are safe to use, even safer than having actual sex and its benefits will only attract you to use this tool more frequently. Even Enema Anal system will also be responsible for your orgasm and you would be bound to buy the same once you get to know the advantages of using it.

So, if you don’t have any partner to satisfy your needs and desires – need not to worry. Enema Anal sex toys are here to replace the absence of your partner and will give you a satisfaction that you have felt never before. After using the same, you will thrive to use it more often. Don’t wait anymore and buy one today to enjoy some extremely pleasurable moment with yourself! Buy one today from Sex Toy Shop US and have it delivered in no time!

Use Sex Toys to Improve your Sexual Life

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The use of sex toys is an exciting way of spicing up not just one’s sexual life, but that of ones partner as well. You can use them on your own, with a sexual partner, or on yourself while your partner is present. They range from objects that tickle to ones that vibrate. Some are for gentle use, while others are meant for sexual acts that involve dominance and submission, commonly known as BDSM. There are numerous great fetish toy gift ideas to improve you and your partner’s sex life: BDSM toys, BDSM gear, vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and anal beads, only to mention a few.

Sex toys make things easier. It is very easy for a woman to achieve an orgasm, reach the G-spot, or get clitoral stimulation while using a vibrator. On the other hand, it is also easier for men to stimulate their prostrate or prolong their erections when using these toys. The best thing is that all you need to do is relax and enjoy the pleasure.

Sex toys help in breaking the monotony in your sex life. People usually have different sexual desires and wants such as certain strokes to masturbate or a specific position to achieve an orgasm. Sex toys come in handy since they increase the range of various types of stimulations. A penis sleeve can tickle your fancy, strap vibrators might open up different intercourse positions, or small vibrators may add a delightful buzz in a blowjob. The use of sex toys will end up expanding your sexual buffet.

Most people find it very difficult to communicate their sexual desires to their partners. You should be honest and open when talking to your sexual partner about sex toys. Once he/she understands your interests and both of you respect each other’s boundaries, use of sex toys may lead to a healthy and pleasurable relationship.

How Hoods and Blindfolds can Make Your sex Life More Exciting

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Imagine eating the same food everyday for every meal for the rest of your life. Things would get pretty boring really quick right? Well, it’s the same deal with your sex life. If you want to have a fun and exciting sex life you need to change things up every now and again. Now that doesn’t mean you have to change partners. Many couples have been together a long time and are more than satisfied with each other, however when it comes to keeping your sex life interesting it is essential to step outside the boundaries of normality every once in awhile.

Introducing hoods and blindfolds into your sex life is a terrific idea to keep things interesting. Many women fantasize about having a masked invaded enter their bedroom and with a hood you can live your fantasies in a safe environment with your partner. Imagine seeing a hooded person into the bedroom, it is sure to get your heart racing.

Blindfolds are another great way to kill the boredom. Removing ones senses when to comes to sight, allows all of the other senses to be heightened immensely. Closing your eyes takes you to another world where fantasy becomes reality.

There are different types of hoods available for those just new to the world of role-playing or for those who are well experienced in BDSM and fetish toys. Many hoods are made with leather and will last a lifetime and many come with full cover or detachable blindfolds or gags which are great for submissive role playing.

Blindfolds are such a simple and inexpensive way to totally transform your sex life. Sextoyshop.us has a wide range of superb quality blindfolds ready to be shipped right away.

Blindfold and hoods are often part of a package or set so you may wish to bundle your purchase and experience the thrill and sensations of each different individual product.

Whether you are an experienced BDSM role player or new to the world of fun and excitement in the bedroom, blindfolds and hoods are a terrific way to reinvent your sex life.